Breaking Up Getting Back Together
Posted by Admin on Monday, 10 May, 2010 @ 9:00 am
It’s all too common for couples to break up and then regret it. The good news is that breaking up getting back together is very possible, but it’s important that you follow some basic rules in the early stages of the breakup, if you don’t you may permanently mess up your changes to get back with your ex.
The first thing you have to do is to leave your ex alone. It sounds weird and it will be hard but if you don’t give your ex some time to miss you and if you become a ‘cling-on’ they will either start to take you for granted and use you for a booty call, or they will just think of you as a pathetic whiner who they wouldn’t be caught dead with. Neither of which is what you want to become. Let your ex breath… and miss you.
The next thing you should do is to go on with your life. Again, weird sounding and difficult but it will accomplish two things, for one thing it will help you keep yourself occupied so you aren’t constantly obsessing about your ex and / or the reasons you broke up, and two, your ex will probably get wind of all the fun things you are doing and be reminded what a fun person you are (were), and feel like they are missing out on something.
The worst thing you can do is to hook up with someone else, and this is a big mistake a lot of people make when they break up. They either find someone else to help them ease the pain or they find someone else hoping to make their ex jealous. Either way, it’s not a great way to get your ex back. You might make them jealous but it’s also likely that they will think you’ve really moved on and will take that as a sign they should move on too.
Breaking up getting back together happens everyday for many couples, and it could happen for you too. Just make sure that in your pain, shock and grief you don’t do anything that could permanently ruin any chance you and your ex may have to reconcile. Go slow, think, and give it plenty of time.
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